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Biscuit wrote:There's no way of getting over anyone by drinking or sleeping with anything that moves. Avoid alcohol and drugs. you're vulnerable and the vulnerable can become addicted. Don't be stupid.

Just spend time by yourself and sort the **Filtered** out in your head. Avoid sad songs and most films for a while. You'll get over it when you're ready to move on. Could be a few weeks, it could take years. Either way you have to go through it like the rest of us. It sucks. Life sucks. But it gets better. As someone who took an unreasonable amount of time to get over his ex I can tell you - it's not as bad as you think it is.

Bad Wolf wrote:

Byrnes wrote:Whats the easiest way to get over someone me and my GF who have been going out for a year and a half broke up and its tearing me up inside and i need to get over whats the easiest way?

Spend time with your friends, Talk about it with someone who cares about you. Then hang out in new places, mix with different people, and try and look for someone else, But only when you are ready.

Its pointless moving on to someone else if you are not ready to, its OK to feel like this, and it will feel a lot better with time. It's a natural feeling.

Bad Wolf

The Man Behind the Curtain

Ashu wrote:Spend some time with friends that just you knew and play some games that you enjoy to forget the impact that she had on you...Sorry this happened to you Byrnes!

Your guys have helped me alot and i thank you for your freind ship ashu and hopefully for the future friendship of bad wolf and biscuit

Good Idea but your first bro

Biscuit wrote:There's no way of getting over anyone by drinking or sleeping with anything that moves. Avoid alcohol and drugs. you're vulnerable and the vulnerable can become addicted. Don't be stupid.

I'm just quoting this to show how strongly I agree with it, I joke about drinking because as a personal philosophy I never drink when I'm upset about anything.

Alcohol is a good thing and should be used to celebrate the good times, it won't lift you out of the bad patches.

As for the music, I couldn't do it because most of the music I listen to is old rock which is so so lamely romantically sad

I'd suggest watching some good comedy, Eddie Izzard, Bill Bailey and the likes to get your mind off things. Also I'd say cartoon network because that just switches your mind off (I recommend CN for anyone with a headache it's an amazing cure ).

Just take it easy, chill, maybe take up running/jogging to take out excess energy.

I might be hanging out with a friend tongiht and im kinda ok right now i look foward to it and thanks for the advice dmonix ill give it a try

i have a little saying when it comes to relation ships but if i posted it i would be warned or banned

**** **** money in the bank fill in the blanks for your self

just think mate it could be worse you could have spent 2 years with her then split up

Your right but her and my cousin are gonna get together i think and it was about a year and a half.

Mass FUALL....best anger management there is


On a serious note, much the same advice as everyone else. Don't get drunk or do drugs, but chill out with your mates. Think of your favourite hobbies (preferably ones that don't remind you of her) and indulge yourself in them for a bit. Comdey is always a good option - get some mates and go to a live gig....laughter really is infectious.

But most important of all, keep yourself busy. I always find I dwell on the past most when I'm bored....always start to daydream then. If you can't find fun in any of the above things, then try and do something productive - do some extra work, learn new things. Take it as an opportunity for a new beginning rather than an ending - perhaps do something you've always wanted to do.....I remember the best break up cure I ever had was sky diving in the morning, watching the footie in the afternoon, going to a Michael McIntyre show, and then having a few quiet drinks; all done with a few good mates.....kept busy for a few weeks after that and never really looked back since.

This is, of course, assuming there is no way of you two getting back together....I don't want to re-open that door if it is definitely closed.

Sorry just to add, maybe try and do something creative ? Putting your time and effort into something is not only great for taking your mind off something but it can also be very rewarding.

Bad Wolf

The Man Behind the Curtain

RepliMagni wrote:Mass FUALL....best anger management there is


On a serious note, much the same advice as everyone else. Don't get drunk or do drugs, but chill out with your mates. Think of your favourite hobbies (preferably ones that don't remind you of her) and indulge yourself in them for a bit. Comdey is always a good option - get some mates and go to a live gig....laughter really is infectious.

But most important of all, keep yourself busy. I always find I dwell on the past most when I'm bored....always start to daydream then. If you can't find fun in any of the above things, then try and do something productive - do some extra work, learn new things. Take it as an opportunity for a new beginning rather than an ending - perhaps do something you've always wanted to do.....I remember the best break up cure I ever had was sky diving in the morning, watching the footie in the afternoon, going to a Michael McIntyre show, and then having a few quiet drinks; all done with a few good mates.....kept busy for a few weeks after that and never really looked back since.

This is, of course, assuming there is no way of you two getting back together....I don't want to re-open that door if it is definitely closed.

Thanks bro i appreciate it and i dont think we are getting back together.

couldn't really tell ya. Me and my gf broke up and I went out with my friends every day to the bars, that helped for a week, but the next two weeks when I was meeting other girls and getting numbers and stuff, I realisedthat they only liked me for when I was drunk or they were stuck up **Filtered** or I would get really drunk, meet a girl, go to sleep, meet her the next day and ask myself what the hell was I thinking when I gave her my number.

So all in al I got back with her. Best decision I've made.

Only thing I can say is hang out with your friends. Find some new women. And notice I said women and not a woman

JediMasterX wrote:couldn't really tell ya. Me and my gf broke up and I went out with my friends every day to the bars, that helped for a week, but the next two weeks when I was meeting other girls and getting numbers and stuff, I realisedthat they only liked me for when I was drunk or they were stuck up **Filtered** or I would get really drunk, meet a girl, go to sleep, meet her the next day and ask myself what the hell was I thinking when I gave her my number.

So all in al I got back with her. Best decision I've made.

Only thing I can say is hang out with your friends. Find some new women. And notice I said women and not a woman

Thanks JMX your always good for a laugh.

add me on msn byrnes-y boy we'll have a good chat

itz_fatal@live.com

Thanks bro cant talk to night im about to go to bed but i would lovew a great chat tommorrow.ill get on and add you real quick though