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I'm so sad to hear that. And now,when everyone should be happy,this happens. Don't make suicide, your better than that. You mus get over it,live onwards and remember only the bright moments with your love. Again, i'm very sorry for your loss...nobody deserves the hell ur going through. and i indeed hope that the guys life(the one that is responsible for your gf's death) will taste what u must suffer now. That kind of animals don't deserve to live.

Good luck, Ben

May God's grace shed on thee, and give you comfort in time of pain.

Remember this season of joy. Continue to find joy in all things of life, both good and bad. Ask yourself, if you were the one dead, would you not want her to find peace and joy?

Make amends with your "real" family, even if you believe they are in the wrong, a simple upfront, unasked for apology can go a long way and he is the only Dad you got.

Talk to your friends both in real life and in SGW. Just because we parted bye long distances doesn't make what we have to say any less or meaningful or helpful.

Do not spend time running from the pain, because you will have to embrace it one day. Instead, spend it looking through pictures and memories of her and you together because that is all you have left.

Spend time thinking about her greatest accomplishments, and if your on good terms with her family, maybe spend sometime them too.

I do not doubt, that after 3 years of a relationship, that she would want you to spend this Holiday Season, and every season after it, regretting everything that has come to pass.

Lose the pain, and keep her in your memory. Do not dwell on the pain too long, for then you may lose her in your memory.

TC

My condelences for your loss man.,
I hope everything gets fine soon!

My deepest condoleance for you mate. If you ever wanna talk you know where to find me

REK wrote:

Giovanni wrote:omg, my condolences mate ! i can not amagin what you are going true right now.. Take care mate and ffs don't commit suicide !!

damn ben that sucks

now either man up or quit

if your going to be here ..be here if not then leave and handle your stuff

Dude.. STHU.

how bout u do

RL is always paramount ... wasting his time posting here is not
dealing with his issues before he lets the world around him consume him and tear him apart more than it already has should be an issue not whut them retards who play sgw do or think

LMAO.. call me a nerd, just looking at you postcount is nuff said

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Giovanni wrote:

REK wrote:

Giovanni wrote:omg, my condolences mate ! i can not amagin what you are going true right now.. Take care mate and ffs don't commit suicide !!

damn ben that sucks

now either man up or quit

if your going to be here ..be here if not then leave and handle your stuff

Dude.. STHU.

how bout u do

unless u have the brain of a retard 4 year old u would easily know he should be dealing with his rl not be here playing this game..

RL is always paramount ... wasting his time posting here is not
dealing with his issues before he lets the world around him consume him and tear him apart more than it already has should be an issue not whut them retards who play sgw do or think

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LMAO.. call me a nerd, just looking at you postcount is nuff said

ahh so u grew one now ?

interesting

Look at my post on page 3 plz

Really sorry to read this, mate. You're a great guy, and I hope everything works out for you somehow.

These are the words of Canon Henry Scott Holland, read at his own funeral in 1918:

“Death is nothing at all…..I have only slipped away into the next room…..I am I and you are you……whatever we were to each other that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name; speak to me in the easy way you always used. Put no difference into your tone; wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me; pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without effect, without the ghost of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is absolutely unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near just around the corner. All is well.”


I hope you will have a good christmas, despite everything. And if this one isn't the best, pray next year's will be better.

Sorry to hear that and kind of glad you are willing to share this with bunch of losers like us...but if it makes you feel better and if we may be able to help somehow do tell...


Blue

im so sorry to hear about your loss... here's a poem ive had for a while

"Washing away the pain" by Kenneth Esrig

"There is a hole in my heart that does not bleed,
a hole in my heart that burns round the clock,
there is a hole in my heart from an unexpected loss,
there is a hole in my heart, when will it stop.

An arrow makes a hole that sewing can repairt,
This is a hole made only by despair,
The mending is slow and fixed only with care,
a hole so big, can it ever be filled?

It takes love and support to fill this hole in,
A hole in the heart can take many forms,
An absence, a loss, a failure of course.

Don't buy any thread, no shovel or sand,
This is a hole that only time mends."

Like everyone else has said, suicide is not the answer. and contrary to what some others have said, making the other person pay is not the answer. Make-up with your family. just try talking to them individually. help them to understand what youre going through. If you ever want to talk, catch me on msn, ab2531@passport.com. I hope the poem helps.

@ REK and Giovanni: could you guys keep your argument to pms or msn please?

as i said on msn mate

we used to be really good friends not so long ago, if you need me you know where to find me

I am very sorry to hear about your loss, I hope things start to turn around for you.

Dude thats unbelievable.

Im not gonna even say i know how your feeling and know what you must be thinking cause i dont, i doubt anyone of us knows.

But for the love of god dont think about hurting yourself that doesnt resolve anything go talk to someone friends or a therapist. Go do something that gets your mind of this even though its hard you should atleast try.

Im so sorry for your loss and i wish you my deepest condolances.

Sorry to hear about this mate, I hope the person responsible is caught swiftly and gets hit with a lengthy prison time. In our limited dealings you've struck me as a good and honest bloke and I wish you all the best for the future mate.