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I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 4:11 am
by Legendary Apophis
What can I do (attitudes idk..) when I live with people (parents) who are *really* stressed all the time due to real life issues going on (bit complicated), to avoid losing grip and throwing a tantrum myself and managing to be the reason's voice and not lose my "defences" against becoming mad?
Because seriously it's being hard for me..and I've already lost control.

Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 4:12 am
by Jim
go out lots
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 4:13 am
by Legendary Apophis
Man Called Jim wrote:go out lots
I'm in a period of exams and I'm meant to learn things...but it's getting hard.
And no my parents aren't fighting each others or something like that,I'm living with my mother.
I've turned again in what I used to be and it caused much damages and I don't know what to do..
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 4:14 am
by Jim
Legendary Apophis wrote:Man Called Jim wrote:go out lots
I'm in a period of exams and I'm meant to learn things...but it's getting hard.
And no my parents aren't fighting each others or something like that,I'm living with my mother.
go out and learn things.
Take books round friends
go to public libraries
sit outside and work
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 4:16 am
by Legendary Apophis
Man Called Jim wrote:Legendary Apophis wrote:Man Called Jim wrote:go out lots
I'm in a period of exams and I'm meant to learn things...but it's getting hard.
And no my parents aren't fighting each others or something like that,I'm living with my mother.
go out and learn things.
Take books round friends
go to public libraries
sit outside and work
Yes but I have to take care of my mother...
I'm ashamed of what I've been doing on last few days, I'm losing my rationality and acting like a **Filtered** idiot. ><
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 4:17 am
by kojak
Take a day out from it all mate. Just have fun for a day with no studying and thinking.
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 4:19 am
by Legendary Apophis
kojak wrote:Take a day out from it all mate. Just have fun for a day with no studying and thinking.
My two exams are in few days, I tried to relax last week by being the lazy one but it didn't work.
Now yesterday and today I act like a **Filtered** **Filtered**.
I'm ashamed of myself so much...acting again like an idiot. My credibility to manage things properly andmaturely goes void.
I should have got out indeed...I reap what I sowed.
Now everyone, laugh at me!

(=> same as "applause!" box in tv shows to applause when it's meant to be done)
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 5:35 am
by Lithium
im not the best guy to listen but i think in yr case some creativity helps.
start enjoying little things, like spending some more time with yr mother, put a comic movie on dvd , there are a few good ones, like Pirate Radio, up in the air, etc. go out for a pizza or even a burger or go at the shopping just for a walk . man enjoy the little things that life offers , and when u feel bring up a good memory , put a smile and look forward
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 5:41 am
by harchester
add me on msn
ill give u some threapy
i study what your going threw
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Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:09 am
by Legendary Apophis
I'm afraid it's bit too late anyway. What has been done has been done, I should probably have asked this topic before...
Talk about self ownage..
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:41 am
by Q Man
go kill something. it helps.
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:43 am
by Legendary Apophis
Maddog wrote:go kill something. it helps.
I've nothing to kill but my stupidity. And stupidity doesn't die, it multiplies..

It's funny I know lol
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:49 am
by Juliette
Maddog wrote:go kill something. it helps.

if the omitted element is "you get into jail", then yes.
Tssk.
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 7:57 am
by Legendary Apophis
SuperSaiyan wrote:just spend more time here, that way you can be as big of an idiot as you want

Thing is I DO NOT want to be an idiot.

Otherwise, I would have carried on being a **Filtered** during last monthes to everyone I could have picked.
Re: I need help :(
Posted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 8:07 am
by Legendary Apophis
SuperSaiyan wrote:Legendary Apophis wrote:SuperSaiyan wrote:just spend more time here, that way you can be as big of an idiot as you want

Thing is I DO NOT want to be an idiot.

Otherwise, I would have carried on being a **Filtered** during last monthes to everyone I could have picked.
sometimes one cannot help it, and when that happens, would you rather be like that to people you actually know? or some pixels on your computer?
Whoever I don't like, pixels or real life, I'd prefer.