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i was talking to my mom today and she was saying about how it is imposible to be in love with some one for their whole lives
and that there is only the "honny moon" period which only last a few years then the "spark" is lost with that person and most people only stay together because they have children and stuff

i am just woundering because i want to be in love with one person for the rest of my life and her love me to
sooo.... what are your guy's & girls thought's

the only way you can stay in love with someone for your whole life is for both to have sincere understanding of each others moods, feelings, desires, wants and needs.

in my experience, relationships break up when 1 or both loose interest and become EXTREMELY selfish and have no desire to understand the other and then become bored.

talking is VERY important, ESPECIALLY after sex.

start by not watching porn

THANKS for your imput
and ya thats what im afraid of is her losing intrest it me
we talk loads and sincerly care for each other but i just having my dobts
i dont think it will be ending any time soon but im just not sure that we will get to the whole life thing

more input people

and lith .... im not even going to say any more about your messege then that

Lithium wrote:start by not watching porn

This is a valid point as it perverts your expectations of your sex life...And also don't confuse love with lust.

Lust is temporary and dull, where as true love has no ends or boundaries and will be a wild ride your whole life. Discovering something new about your lover each day


Also don't be fooled into think the one you love now is the one that is meant for you...

It is also possible to Love someone, and still not be with them, I was with the same girl for 4 years, Love her more than anything but I cant be with her. We broke up as it wasnt working we both argued all the time and was making us unhappy, still to this day I think of her non stop and it does hurt me, to know I cant be with her.

Love is the most complicated feeling there is.

From some random face book friend


"We could both love each other, doesn't mean we are meant to be together"

Jason... wrote:

Lithium wrote:start by not watching porn

This is a valid point as it perverts your expectations of your sex life...And also don't confuse love with lust.

Lust is temporary and dull, where as true love has no ends or boundaries and will be a wild ride your whole life. Discovering something new about your lover each day


Also don't be fooled into think the one you love now is the one that is meant for you...

i understand what you guy's are getting at
I atm belive she is "the one" but thing's change and i may be wrong but i rely do hope i am right and not blinded by lust
also kodjax i agree with you that it is the most complicated emotion there is , just so confusing at times and it is hard to fully understand

and ya that is a good face book quote lol

Your 15...Please don't raise your expectations and think she is the one. You are young and not sure what you want.


But hey what do I know, she could be

Jason... wrote:Your 15...Please don't raise your expectations and think she is the one. You are young and not sure what you want.


But hey what do I know, she could be

that is why i am being weary and just because im 15 doesnt mean i dont know what i want people mature at different times and i have done lots of it recently but ya im still in the learning/figuring out what i want stage

life is complicate , if u want to u can love each ppl near you , love isnt only for the partner its a feeling that has to grown inside you. dont let life ruins it if u want to have a chance to have that same feeling given to you.

Seems to work for some people, I know a few who are in their 30s now and are still very happy living with, and a couple even married to there high school sweethearts, but I would have to say they are a small minority, most teenage relationships dont work out as the people have not finished growing up or found out what they want from life yet, and as they grow they find the things they want change and become incompatible.

Many get frustrated that the people they love do not think or do the things they would like them to, if you think you can change people your wrong, if you think people will not change over time your wrong, and if you both change the same way consider yourselves very lucky.

Never say never, but if you say forever odds are your being unrealistic.

loving someone forever is not that hard.. staying IN love with someone is a different matter...

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ƒëmmë ƒatalë wrote:loving someone forever is not that hard.. staying IN love with someone is a different matter...

ya i know what you mean there accually i am going to change the title to that lol because what you said is so true

and kit that is accually a good point your parents have there to