I see 2 sides to this,
1st ) Rev I gather you missed a trade due to some bug and Rob stole naq on show, frankly if he hadnt someone else would have. I had taken naq from a friend I would have given some or all of it back depending on how good a friend it was BUT a friend or brother of a friend is stretching it a bit. Expecting Rob to return it was unrealistic and not worth shouting about.
2nd ) DDE only do vendetta's when they are sure they can win, people like JT or Qacol would have fought you 1-v-1 because they know their accounts are far superior, but I know from my pre-DDEwar days that if you try to challenge anyone in DDE where you have the advantage they say 'fight one you fight us all'. Thats just the way it is.
I wont be cheering anyone in this since I've fought Rev, Bebs and Rob at different times, all 3 are good fighters and friendly in PMs. So I just say dont stress it and dont take it personal, tis a game so have fun

Attack Mercs Killed (30) 459,329,001
Defence Mercs Killed (10) 2,918,478,517
Attack Soldiers Killed(60) 12,677,958
Defence Soldiers Killed(20) 226,236,488
Attack Super Soldiers Killed(300) 490,627,262
Defence Super Soldiers Killed(100) 4,131,482,551
Spies Killed(50) 4,256,505,842
Spy Killers Killed(50) 651,022,448
Mothership Weapons Destroyed(300) 35,583,034
Mothership Shields Destroyed(300) 39,498,511
Mothership Fleets Destroyed(200) 2,413,254
Planet Defences Destroyed(300) 358,539
Planets Taken(5000) 411
Naquadah Stolen(0.0001) 2,355,738,435,154,805
Untrained Kidnapped(50) 5,943,886,456
Weapon Points Destroyed (Sab+Att)(0.0001) 74,293,522,376,607
Attack Turns Used(1) 1,731,971